How to remain charming during a conversation?

If your focus is true, it would be nice to follow the recommendations of those who are already familiar with this case. And if you are really interested in this, let's begin to sort out these tips.

Let's start:

1. If you have heard that long-awaited or not-so-called phone call, you first need to be a pleasant companion, for this, picking up the phone's handset & ndash; to begin with, just make a sincere smile, not faked, but really the one that will smile even the invisible interlocutor.

2. Hearing the first words of your interlocutor, be very attentive to the intonation, with which all the sentences are pronounced. For what? This primarily helps you understand him or her, which is very important, because you can determine the tone, manner, timbre of the voice, and therefore approximately some of the character traits of the interlocutor. This will point you to a certain socio-type, for example, if a person is more with you about your own feelings and impressions & ndash; it makes no sense to talk to them about statistics or other mathematical obshcheta, because it is simply not interested in him, and you will seem to him a boring interlocutor. If on the contrary, that is, a person talks very little about his own opinion and wants to hear something from you sooner & ndash; then lay out to him the whole point, do not hesitate, because telling him about your opinions, ideals, excellences, self-achievements will only provoke him to hang up.

3. If your goal is & ndash; become and be a woman that fascinates, first of all, forget about yourself. There is only your interlocutor, and your main task is & ndash; give him the maximum that he needs. Your interests & ndash; on the rear facade plan, and front-line main & ndash; interests of the person with whom conversation is conducted. Remember that your voice is also very important, because if the interlocutor does not find something attractive in him, he will end the conversation very quickly, you should be fascinated, because the voice & ndash; a very powerful force that has one of their vowel components from the cycle of "charming women".

- in order to provoke interest in the interlocutor, you must motivate him: ask many questions (only on topic and semantic).

- your voice, by the charm, should still be clear, so that the interlocutor can understand you clearly, all words should contain the vocabulary suitable to your interlocutor, try not to use words that are known to a small circle of people in which you enter, because your interlocutor may be uncomfortable with a constant misunderstanding of you.

- Act on the principle of Confucius (Chinese philosopher) & laquo; two times more listen than say & raquo ;. Be careful not to get distracted by extraneous things and noise when talking to a person. This is very important!

- when you really want to add your comment & laquo; in the subject & raquo;, know how to restrain yourself, be patient, let the person finish the conversation, then say what you want to add your comment to.

- from the first minutes of the conversation you had to understand and & laquo; feel & raquo; mood of the interlocutor. If you hear despondency in his voice & ndash; support and sympathize. If the companion's joy does not have boundaries, & ndash; make it even larger.

- Another quality of fascinating conversation is a poetic and metaphorical language, instead of saying "I had lunch today", say "on this wonderful day, I took a fairly balanced and useful meal for general physical tone" rak. Do you feel the difference?!

- Watch the speed, timbre and specificity of your speech. Speak slowly, evenly.

- if you feel that the interlocutor is in a given, instantaneous, passive moment, take pauses, give him time to think, then just keep on talking.

- act from a position of mutual exchange: if you want your interlocutor to somehow change your views in particular to something about you & ndash; speak also convincingly, emotionally, oratorically, exclamation.

- most of all talk about the interests of your interlocutor, if he is interested in talking about cars, make an interesting appearance, at least, you know something about them and you know.

- be such as say this rule not only throughout the conversation, but in life, you should live it, and not "play".

In order to comply with all these goals & ndash; write them down, and put them in the most prominent place. Begin to act already from the first call and try to step by step self-critical correction and improvement. These rules are enough to be successful, charming in the business and not only.